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“The Tremendous Power of Love” by Dr. Alex Aronis

16 September 2007

Texts: Luke: 15: 11-32; 1 Corinthians 13:1-13


© 2007 Alex Aronis


A conference on  comparative religions was being held in Britain. And one of the questions being debated was the uniqueness of the Christian faith. One expert said that what makes Christianity unique is the incarnation of Jesus Christ. “The Word became flesh and dwelt among us.” (Jn 1:14)  But the scholars pointed out that other religions also claim incarnations --  that gods of other religions supposedly appeared in human form. Another person said the resurrection--that's what distinguishes Christianity from all other religions. But again, other great religious leaders are said to have returned from the dead.

The debate was going on when C. S. Lewis entered the room. When he learned that they were discussing the unique contribution of Christianity to the world religions, Lewis responded, “Oh, that’s easy.  It’s grace.” After some discussion, everyone had to agree.

Philip Yancey points out that the idea that God would come to us as the God of love, not subject to any conditions, no strings attached, is contrary to every human instinct. The Buddhist have an eight-fold path. The Hindus have their doctrine of karma. The Jewish faith has the covenant.  Muslim’s have their code of law.  Each of these offers a way to earn approval with God. Only Christianity dares to make God’s love unconditional.

I want to talk this morning about the Tremendous Power of God’s love. 1 Corinthians 13 puts it this way:  And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.

I will be making the case for love by turning to Jesus’ greatest parable, the well-known story of the prodigal son. The story begins with the younger of two sons making a shameless request of his Father. He said, ‘Father, give me my share of the estate.’

Freud would say that this was a death wish. In effect he was saying, “Dad, I wish you were dead because I want what you have, not what you are. I don’t want to wait around until you die. I want my inheritance, now!”

No human father would have gone along with this disgraceful request. But, the Father in our story represents God and, as Karl Barth says, God can do what God wants to do. God has complete freedom to do anything he wants.  So, this Father divided his property between his two sons.

v. 14 - Not long after that the younger son got together all he had, set off for a distant country and there squandered his wealth in wild living.  

Notice how Jesus under-tells a story. He sketches the narrative in just a fewwords, and yet the emotional component is there. This young man, wanting to get  away from the rules and restrictions of home, leaves with a sizeable inheritance, and foolishly wastes it on drunkenness and dissipation. His older brother is going to  provide additional details, but that comes later.

Many of you have left your homes and have gone off to far countries. But instead of squandering your money, you have sent your hard-earned wages home to support your parents, your brothers and sisters, members of your extended families. You have sacrificed for years and are doing that even now!  Not the prodigal son! He went through his inheritance with no thought for anything but his own pleasure. But then he ran into trouble. Our text tells us that  . . .

v.14b  After he had spent everything, there was a severe famine in that whole country, and he began to be in need.  15 So he went and hired himself out to a citizen of that country, who sent him to his fields to feed pigs.

To be taking care of pigs would have been abhorrent to a Jew. It was an assault on this young man’s identity. But his hunger drove him to this extreme. In fact he was so hungry that v. 16  tells us He longed to fill his stomach with the pods that the pigs were eating, but no one gave him anything.

Here's this young man -- no money, no companions, no self-respect. A classic case of downward mobility. The prodigal is abandoned, friendless --no one gave him anything. What a terrible condition to be in! Some of you know that kind of loneliness.

But then something extraordinary happens.  V. 17 says “: . . . he came to himself (NRSV), Another version says, “he came to his senses.” (NIV)  This is a marvelous statement. It shows the freedom that human beings have. . . . the freedom to make choices. Even for people down and out.

The text doesn’t say that the Lord spoke to him, or that the Holy Spirit shook him by the shoulders.  This boy came to himself. He had the freedom to reverse his course.

You see, Wesley, whose figure is carved on the pulpit at my right, was correct. He was against the hyper-Calvinists who built a theology that was so rigid that it did not allow for human choice. Karl Barth waded into this controversy and said, “No harm must be done to the critical choice.” This was the critical choice -- “He came to himself.” He had the freedom to make this decision-- The decision to return to the Father.

And now listen to what the prodigal says, and how wise and understanding our Lord is. Luke 15:17   “When he came to his senses, he said, ‘How many of my father’s hired men have food to spare, and here I am starving to death!

His first concern was his own survival.  That is not selfishness. It is not evil. We have to survive. We can’t do anything else if we do not survive. It was not as though he cut in line in front of somebody else. He was starving. He needed food, and that is the most basic need in our hierarchy of needs.

But then, his mind turned to the moral issue and here’s what he decided: 18 I will set out and go back to my father and say to him: Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you.  19 I am no longer worthy to be called your son; make me like one of your hired men.  

This is powerful. I have sinned against heaven and against you. When you offend another human being -- like your parent, or a member of your family, or anyone else -- you offend God because he cares very deeply about the people that you hurt.

You’ll remember that when David had committed adultery with Bathsheba, Nathan the prophet came to David and confronted him. And David confessed his sin to God, saying, “Against you, and you alone, have I sinned; I have done what is evil in your sight.” (Psalm 51:4) His sin was against Bathsheba and her husband Uriah. But before mentioning them, he confessed his sin to God and admitted that it was primarily against God that David had sinned.

Over and over the prodigal rehearsed his confession: Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you.  19 I am no longer worthy to be called your son; make me like one of your hired men.’

You know the feeling, don’t you? You violate your conscience, and know that you are not worthy to stand before God. You are afraid that your recurring sins are too much for God to stomach, that he can’t possibly forgive you again and again. That’s how the prodigal felt. He could never be reinstated as a son. Perhaps the Father would allow him to come back as one of the hired hands -- living in the barn,--  eating at their table.

20 So [the young man] got up and went to his father.

Ah -- "But while he was still a long way off -- [there is so much meaning in that phrase]-- his father saw him and was filled with compassion for him; he ran to his son, threw his arms around him and kissed him.  

If love is a combination of feeling and action we have it here in its finest demonstration. The boy -- still a long way off is spotted by the Father.  The Father is filled with compassion --the word that expresses the deepest emotion for love!  And this compassion moves him to action.    

This old man sets aside all dignity and decorum. This wealthy landlord  rushes out into the street, and runs to meet his son.  And as he gets closer, he sees guilt and distress on his boy's face. The Father wanting to reassure his son, throws his arms around him, pulls him in tight, and kisses him again and again.

The son clears his throat to say the words he has rehearsed: `Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son. '      

But the Father breaks off the apology. It’s not necessary to say those words. Grace interrupts. His son has returned. That’s enough.  So the Father raises his voice, and shouts to the servants:  

Luke 15:22 …, ‘Quickly, bring out a robe—the best one—and put it on him; put a ring on his finger and sandals on his feet.  23 And get the fatted calf and kill it, and let us eat and celebrate;  24 for this son of mine was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found!’ And they began to celebrate.”

It is very important for us to understand that this is the picture of God that Jesus gives us-- a loving Father who scans the horizon looking for us, who yearns for our return, is filled with compassion when he sees us draw near, forgives us, and embraces us with his love.  How powerful is that? Is there anything more helpful to our spieitual growth than to know that we are loved by God?    Have you felt his embrace? You can! Just believe this description of God given to us by Jesus himself!

But the story doesn’t end here. V. 25 tells us that the older son [who] was in the field. When he came near the house, he heard music and dancing.  26 So he called one of the servants and asked him what was going on.  27 ‘Your brother has come,’ he replied, ‘and your father has killed the fattened calf because he has him back safe and sound.’     28 The older brother became angry and refused to go in

He refuses to go into the feast even though, as the older brother, he would have had a certain responsibilities. His refusal is a symbolic act of huge proportions in a culture where families bound themselves together by the sharing of food.

Whereas the Father was filled with compassion, this older brother is filled with anger.  So, how does the Father respond?  . So his father went out and pleaded with him.  

The basic definition of love from I Corinthians 13 is this: “Love suffereth long and is kind.” That’s the picture of the Father.  He was “patient and kind.”Love suffereth all things, beareth all things, believeth all things, endureth all things. Love never fails. That’s the Father.  He leaves the banquet, of which he was host, to console his older son and to plead with him.  The Greek word is” parakaleo,” He comes along side of him.  It’s the same word that is used of the Holy Spirit when he is called the paraclete, the one who comes along side, to comfort, and to counsel us.  The father makes an emotional appeal. He pleads with him.  

29 But [the older son] answered --  (and notice-- he doesn’t refer to him as Father)  ‘Look! [he says] All these years I’ve been slaving for you and never disobeyed your orders. Yet you never gave me even a young goat so I could celebrate with my friends.  30 But when this son of yours who has squandered your property with prostitutes comes home, you kill the fattened calf for him!’

He’s making a strong case. He's saying that this prodigal son of yours turned his back on you, on your values, your deepest beliefs, your way of life.  He disgraced himself and all that you stand for -- and all the while I have been serving you and doing what you expected. And instead of rewarding me,  throwing a party for me,  you arrange this lavish feast for this son-of-yours.”

The older son is expressing the resentment and bitterness that many people have: against God. They are convinced that God does not treat them fairly, that he doesn’t always do right, that his actions are unjust. And if this is correct than God is not a good God, not a just God. He is not a God you can trust, or love or respect. Instead, you develop a resentment toward a God like that.   

In response, the Father says, My son, you are always with me, and everything I have is yours.  Perhaps the elder son didn't realize that the Father was available, accessible in every way, eager to be engaged at any moment. As Jesus says to us, “I am with you always to the end of the age. Or, I will never leave you nor forsake you. For Christ is in you, the hope of glory.

My son, you are always with me, and everything I have is yours.  The older son actually comes off better than the younger son. The younger son is restored, but the Father assures this elder brother that everything he has belongs to the older son.  Isn’t that the case for us as well? He who did not spare his own Son but gave him up for us all, will he not also with him freely give us all things?

And then the Father explains the need for a joyous response. He says: 32 But we had to celebrate and be glad, because this brother of yours (he wants this older brother to be reconciled to the younger brother) was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found.'"

So what is the point of this story?  The focus is not on the younger son -- his rebellious dissipation. Nor is the focus on the older son -- his angry resentment and jealousy. There’s nothing new or significant in the sins of these brothers. They are defects that are as old as the human race.

What is new and remarkable and even incredible is the kindness and goodness and grace of the Father. This is Christianities unique contribution among the world religions. That God would lavish such love on people who are undeserving.

Waiting in agony for them, running to embrace them, interrupting their apology, restoring them into the family, celebrating their return. And then pleading with those who criticize and condemn, inviting them to be restored  to their brothers, and insisting on a  joyous response to the recovery of the lost.  

Is there anything more powerful than that kind of love? Best of all -- it's real. As the Father related to his two sons, so he relates to everyone  of us  --with patience, understanding, forgiveness, generosity, and love. There is tremendous power in that love because it is unconditional. Unconditional, and yet you have to receive it.

Is it important that you receive God’s love? Yes!! Otherwise you will be short on giving love to others.  We love, because he first loved us. God is the source of our love.

And so I conclude by asking you to receive God’s love, God’s acceptance of you, God’s forgiveness of you.  It doesn’t take a lot of words. All you have to say is “Thank You God. Thank you for your great love for me.”  Or simply say,  “Amen!”